Saturday, March 11, 2006 ♥
ranted@11:43 PM
Dear diary,
JEAN says
This is what the person who has been tagged(tag-ee?)has to do.The tagged victin has t come up with 8 different points of their Perfect Lover. Specify the gender of the target. Tag 8 victims to join this game and leave a comment on their page saying that they've been tagged. if tagged a second time, there's no need to post again.
okay.. so i finally decided to 'surrender' to denise and join this 'lovely and rather interesting?' game
well.. the gender has to be a MALE. duh. LOL
1. very importantly he MUS b a christian.a strong one indeed.
God will nvr send me a non-christian as the one.
2. he has to have a good character. one that is appealing to God. appealing to my family and my frens and of course to me.
3. his looks has to be appealing to me. like hello. if we're gonna get married. i'll be like seein him everyday. so.. looks are impt too. HAHA.
4. he has to like lil children and animals. hahas. i know its lame. but.. waddever.
5. he has to be able to motivate me to achieve stuff. yeah
6. he has to understand me. and b senstive. i hate it when guys always think that they are the superior gender.
7. he mus be able to listen to my crapping. cos i jus love to talk talk talk
8. He mus love me for who i am. VERY VERY VERY IMPORTANT. hahaha.
okay.. but i trust the Lord will send the right one.. who knows.. he might jus b right in front of me right now..
okay.. so since the beginning is talking of romance and relationship..
today i shall write about dating.
my dad says that there are 3 levels of relationship.
NO 1. there is the phyiscal relationship. it is the lowest level of all. and many a times ppl mistake this physical relationship as 'true' love and.. well.. end up hurt. phyiscal relationship is bascially jus mere phyiscal attraction between two ppl cos of their phyiscal attributes such as looks, style.
NO 2. there is the soul relationship. this is the 2nd level of relationships. it talks about the connection between 2 ppl. this chemistry that causes 2 ppl to b together like.. they can read each other actions or minds and understand.
NO 3. there is the spiritual relationship. this is the hardest and highest level perhaps of the romance realm. to achieve such a level. these ppl need God in their life. and the key word is to PRAY. PRAY PRAY.
yeah. to me.. love, dating and marriage are very significant. that's why i have this motto of no bfs till after a levels. cos i wld b more matured? yeah. i believe that all christians should not have unequally yoked marriages. cos.. God will never send us a non-christian to b our husbands or wives. to me.. my relationship with my future bf has to be based on God. and that our focus will b on God. not on ourselves. our objective is to glorify God's name thru our relationship. i dun want it to be some fling or wadsoever. yeah.
it musnt be a selfish relationship
it must be based on our faith.
it must be serious and not some fling.
it must be an example to other christians
it must be approved by my parents and family.
it musnt be for self-interest.
it must be pure.
it musnt destroy our values.
and the list goes on... haven really thought of it yet..
basically now isnt the time.. right now.. i should see singleness as a gift from God. and let him work thru me.. patient and He will come one day...
yup. i dunno. but even if i think i found Him i mus still seek God and ask him. right now. i'm only 16. with a life ahead. with a family to think of. with a career to find. a purpose to fulfil.
so.. all i'll do is pray and ask God to show me..
ps.waiting for the right time and the right man.
♥ Love, ME
